Why is life so hard?
Why should i go through all of this, why me?
What did do to deserve this?
The answer to these questions lie with in us and no one else. Life can be lived in simplest way possible yet can be extremely complex to comprehend.
To talk about this in detail, lets divide life into few major categories or emotional states
4. No feeling or emptiness
The above ones being a very broad category, I will cover the topics one by one as I get time to write on them. Let us now talk about Love-Hate relationship.
When there is a feeling of love, there is also a feeling of hate. Unfortunately, there is a very thin line that separates the two.
Now love is a very broad term, love can be shown or showered upon different people or things. Every person or animal born on this planet loves at some point of time, this is undeniable.
Feeling of love can be amazing and painful (sometimes at the same time). At times, the pain of love can also be amazing.
It is extremely important to know that a failure in love does not mean hate though one can lead to the other.
Love can be expressed in several forms, so can hate be. The reasons are also diverse for both. Also, the extremes of displaying or having a love-hate relationship can be beyond imagination
The love-hate relationship can be again displayed in several categories -
1. Everyday Life
3. Friendship and several other categories
The key to overcome pain in love or in hate is diversion. The greatest gift in our lives in the ability to forget. Forgetting painful experiences and being able to move on is the greatest healing power we possess.
Concentrating or focusing on things other to overcome painful experiences is the best possible way to heal quicker
"Love and hate have a magical transforming power" - George William Russell
To the above quote, the love-hate relationship only makes us stronger and a better person because we would by then would have learned what no to do and how not to repeat the same mistake. Now this is a generalized statement, this will definitely differ from person to person. Transforming oneself into a positive frame of mind is left to the individual
One thing everyone has to know is,
"There is life after love failure, there is love after love failure" - Movie quote
With that being said, I pray to god that we all spread love and make this world a better place. Cheers!
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